The days of being a spiritual mentor in Meiman

Chapter 1383 The Call of the Stars (16)

The setting sun on the Hudson River was not brighter and more lasting than other places. In just one hour, the warm light disappeared. When the night shrouded Hell’s Kitchen, Schiller, who was sitting in the clinic, stood up to start lamp.

Daredevil Matt is acquired blindness. He was blinded by the radioactive material spilled on the truck in order to save a blind man. Since the optic nerve is still intact, judging from the current medical level, he has a chance to see the light again, but He doesn't need to.

The mind-eye skill he possesses allows his other enhanced senses to outline the surrounding scene in his mind, even more finely than what many people can see, and it is not limited by the visual area.

Therefore, the moment Schiller got up to turn on the light, Matt's eyebrows were slightly frowned, the muscles under the suit were tense, and his waist was exerting force, like a beast with its body arched and ready to attack at any time.

Matt's eyes are not sensitive to light, and after hearing a few "clicks" of the switch being toggled, he felt Schiller sit down again.

"Another glass of wine?" Matt asked blankly, looking at the wine glass in front of Schiller.

"No," Schiller replied, shaking his head, before crossing one leg over the other and putting his hands in front of him, he said, "That's too sweet."

"Then some more fish."

"I'm not interested in raw food." Schiller lowered his eyes, looked at the few slices of mandarin bream sashimi left on the plate and shook his head.

"It seems that you are the old-fashioned sherry-loving person that Schiller said." Matt didn't show much surprise, he just picked up the ice wine next to him and poured himself another glass of wine, and squeezed Take a piece of fish and put it on the plate.

"I regret his behavior of spreading stereotypes, but he did have something to do and left temporarily, but he didn't want to end the conversation with his friends, so I will take over for the time being."

"You have a child?"

Matt couldn't tell whether Schiller or the stranger had said the previous sentence, so he could only ask.

"Not appropriate." Schiller said calmly, "I have many students, each with their own characteristics."

"It seems that one of the characteristics impresses you."

Perhaps because lawyers and doctors have something in common, Matt's way of speaking is different from many of the superheroes here, and his conversation rhythm and pace are more similar to Schiller.

"Probably." Schiller did not deny it, but paused for a moment. He seemed to feel that his attitude was inappropriate, so he added: "This is even more so in his thesis."

"Are you a teacher?"

"Yes."

Matt found that the other party seemed to take care of him being blind without any body movements. He could have just nodded when faced with this problem, but he still spoke out.

"It seems that the student has caused you a lot of trouble, making your behavior mode closer to being cautious and appropriate." Matt guessed, but soon he touched his own person with his hand and said: " Sometimes, I am also like this, when facing my own students, I have to play a more perfect version of me."

Schiller tilted his head, as if he was very interested in his point of view, Matt changed his hand to hold the chopsticks, picked up the fish and put it in his mouth, chewing and saying: "While being a teacher, Do you want to be a role model? From the perspective of parents and students, the answer to this question must be yes, and teachers must first do it before they can teach students.”

"Isn't that so?" Schiller asked.

Matt shook his head, and continued: "My students have thousands of lives, and I can't experience them all. They also have countless future possibilities, and I can't experience them all personally. I prefer to do what I can. help and timely letting go."

"Mother-like teaching," Schiller commented.

"Because then I don't have to hurt each other with my children. One side controls and the other side resists. I would only do that to criminals."

"Do you know Freud?" Schiller asked, but he didn't expect Matt on the opposite side to answer, but explained to himself: "He once showed his strengths on the stage of cognitive theory, And he has a very interesting theory, that is 'Oedipus imitates father, Electra imitates father'."

"Although I personally feel that he places too much emphasis on sexuality in cognitive theory, I still agree with parts of his theory, including his theory of the formation of attachment psychology in human beings in childhood."

"After adulthood, people will use their own rational cognition to imitate others in order to better communicate with them or integrate into the group."

"But during childhood, we don't have the power to choose who we socialize with, and human pups need to be raised by their parents, whether you want it or not."

"The relationship with your parents is the most difficult proposition in the world, but everyone has to face it. At this time, a very strange phenomenon appears. When you start to rely on one of them, you will not imitate it. The way he does things, he chooses to emulate the other side instead."

"Because the family itself is a kind of mutual possession. The father owns the mother, and the mother owns the father. And when newborn children want to join this relationship, the more they love each other, the more they want to possess someone, but they don't understand How to possess is to learn the behavior pattern of the party who has already possessed."

"Then we can turn it around and see that being attached to and possessive of the mother makes the child behave more like the father, and when the father is possessive, the behavior is more like the mother."

Matt's hand holding the wine glass paused for a moment, and Schiller's voice sounded at the right time: "It should be your father that just appeared in your mind, right?"

"So you're saying that my upbringing was gentler and closer to my mother's because I was raised by my father?"

"In a way, it does."

"So, you want to explain to me that Schiller's education method is more inclined to a strict father because he is more attached to his mother?"

Schiller lowered his eyes. Although he knew that Matt couldn't directly see his expression, he was still dutifully showing his mood through subtle changes in facial muscles. He said, "Yes, but I have to explain another One point, that's jealousy."

"envy?"

"If you possess your mother, you will be jealous of your father, and if you possess your father, you will be jealous of your mother."

"It's ridiculous." Matt commented, but he still explained rationally: "Sometimes the conclusions of psychiatrists and philosophers make me think that human beings are really hopeless."

"It is indeed true." Schiller rarely refuted, but went on to say: "I am just repeating some existing theories, which does not mean that I agree with him. This is just a point of view."

"Now I want to know even more, Schiller threw those children into a dangerous universe, how to ensure their safety?"

"I'm discussing this with you."

Schiller leaned back on the back of the couch, moved his hand from his front to his side, and continued: "Broadly speaking, envy comes from possessiveness, and possessiveness comes from greed. "

"Greed is a human trait that is almost inevitable." Schiller first made a conclusion, and then said: "After the child's attachment period is over, it can be divided into two situations. If the possessive desire is not satisfied, in addition to deepening jealousy, it will also produce a sense of insecurity and even revenge, which will eventually form an inducement for the rebellious period."

"And what if it's fulfilled?" Matt asked.

Schiller leaned forward, picked up the empty wine glass and looked at it in his hand, and said in a slightly complicated tone: "Being satisfied will create enough sense of security and make the personality more stable... But in fact, there is still a little situation."

"what is that?"

"It's a bit too satisfying." Schiller looked up at Matt's dull eyes and said, "In order to satisfy the child, I will sacrifice myself, even my own safety and life."

Matt's arms tensed suddenly, and there was no doubt that it was his father again that was on his mind.

For him, in order to let his children see him win, he did not hesitate to resist the gangsters, refused to punch fake punches, and was brutally killed by the gangsters in the end.

"Do you know what this leads to?"

"Guilty," Matt replied.

"That's just a situation where compensation can be made. If there is no chance of compensation, it will develop into another paranoid pursuit-an internal drive brought about by the fear of tragedy happening again, just like you are in Gangster."

Matt felt chills all over his body, as if he had been stripped naked in front of this stranger he didn't know well, and his deepest secrets had been seen through his calm eyes.

"When you fight against gangsters, apart from justice and revenge for your father, you have another motive, which is control. You feel that the gangsters that are out of your control are creating tragedies like your father every second. It's frightening, so you have to do everything you can to avoid that from happening."

Matt pursed his lips. He looked up at Schiller and said, "Aren't we talking about Schiller? Why did the topic come back to me?"

"I was talking about Schiller."

Schiller put the wine glass back on the table again, as if he wasn't quite used to the fact that the person opposite him couldn't comprehend the charade he was playing, so he had to speak more clearly.

"Among the bunch of people that were thrown into that universe, there was one that was special to Schiller, who was important to Schiller."

"Then why..." Matt was stunned for a moment when he said this, and then he said to himself: "Schiller is worried that some tragedy will happen again, so he must control someone, or change him ?”

Schiller sighed slightly, as if he was relieved by the sudden increase in the other party's understanding ability, but what he didn't expect was that the superheroes here don't know how to look at their faces, and they don't know how to stop when enough is enough. Matt asked:

"What is this tragedy?"

Schiller pursed his lips, as if he didn't want to say it, but judging from Matt's expression, he knew that if he didn't say it, the man in front of him would definitely break the casserole and ask the bottom line, and even yell all over the world.

So he can only stop there.

"A mother who loses one of her children cannot afford to lose a second."

Matt had an expression of not understanding, and before he continued to ask, Schiller sighed deeply and had to explain:

"The first child has something special, and he won't be unable to survive in a special world, but the second child is just an ordinary person, not enough to cope with this dangerous world."

"And what Schiller has to do is to make him have the ability to live by whatever means. Schiller's ultimate goal is to let him live on his own, so you don't have to worry that he or they will die."